Why I Considered Marrying Quite Early
It will be so hard for me to fail to recall sitting across from my department’s dean just a week away from my graduation. This was just a week after I had celebrated my 21st birthday. This was my 3rd year in college yet I had garnered enough credits to graduate. I was actually inside her office where she was marveling at my potential to cram one year’s worth of coursework in a limited period of time. She actually felt that I rushed through the course so that I can take my master’s program quite early. You will however learn that she had no slight idea that I had been engaged ever since November and that I was actually planning for my wedding. It is at this point now that I told her that I was getting married before she handed me my folder.
It is not hard to understand why she could not say anything. This is because people assume that your twenties need to be for your pals. It is at this time that you will get to learn more about yourself apart from traveling. It will often be the best time to discover more of who you truly are. I however wanted to see to all these with my partner. It was in high school that I met my hubby who was then a sophomore. We went on to chat online for some time before he eventually requested me out for dinner. We soon become a thing and this was no time to look back. It is understandable that we were immature as well as insecure in the beginning. You will note that jealousy will only breed contempt. We actually never thought of splitting up.
We tied the note when he was twenty two while I was twenty one. This has been close to ten years now that have been filled with great memories. I have guided him in lots of things such as preparing for marathons as well as discovering his innate capacity to prepare great meals. We have actually switched careers over six times now. Together we have been blessed with a pair of babies that we cherish so much. It is barely a fortnight before we can finally celebrate ten years of this wedded bliss as well as one and a half decades of being together.
There is no point that I have ever regretted getting married this early. We actually knew that we were purposed for one another right from the onset. There is no single time that there arose a need to have anything expunged from my system. He also found it fit not to fall vulnerable to sowing wild oats. We took things slowly. This is a decision that was suitable for both of us.