What Will Make You Know That You Rare Losing Yourself In Your Relationship
When you meet someone you love it is possible to take some of their characteristics. It is also possible to begin adapting to their likes and dislikes. However there is a need to provide even in a long-term relationship you remain you. As much as you begin sharing your likes and dislikes it is essential to have a separate identity. Otherwise you may end up creating a different person from the one you knew before meeting your lover. If you are not sure you are becoming this kind of a person, read on to make sure you know where you are.
You may find that you are all about us, but nothing for me. Many people will love talking about themselves but there also others who can make sure they say everything else but they have no time to use the word me. If you are constantly stating about we and have nothing at all about me, that could be a sign that you are lost in your relationship.
Something else that will give you a sign that you are getting lost in relationship is when you cannot tolerate thing you would not before. Things you would not have before meeting your partner. One way of knowing whether you are changing is looking at some of the things that you knew you cannot tolerate and see whether that position has since changed. It may look normal to you but it is never ok to tolerate things that are not ok. Whether you are feeling obliged to the other person or not, remember to keep good morals.
Another sign that you could be losing your identity is the time when you begin looking at your stuff as less important than that of your partner. If you move in together, find out whether you have also brought in some stuff that you used to own alone. If you have not brought in anything that used to belong to you before, it means you are considering your stuff as less important than that of your partner. It is also important to find out whether you are just agreeing to everything automatically. You cannot find people who agree to each other automatically under normal circumstances.
Another sign that can make you know that you are losing it to your relationship is when you find you have no me time. Although there are those people who think they are extra extrovert, they also need some time alone. If you find that you do not need such a time, you could be moving towards losing your identity. You should make sure you schedule some time for you alone. Without that you can lose your identity.